So, you're still here....well thank you for sticking around to
I have this texting rule, I am supposed to text him everyday at 11:30. Well this past weekend we got new phones....my old phone had an alarm set to remind me to text him at 11:30. I still am not familiar with this new
Monday night we were laying in bed talking and I decided to tell him about the non text. Isn't that what any good sub would do?? I told him that I'm snitching myself off but I'm sorry I forgot to text you today. He says oh yeah...you didn't, did you?
What??? He didn't even realize that I didn't??? UGH
OK, so now I'm kinda mad because he didn't realize the non text and here I am telling on myself. Now I'm thinking what is the point of the rule if he's not even going to notice if I don't do it?
Yesterday the same thing happened. I still hadn't set my alarm and again I forgot to text him. I got busy at work and just didn't remember. Again, he doesn't realize or he just forgot too.
He was also upset with me because I guess I had a bratty attitude. I didn't think I did......ok well maybe I did. I did get a couple of warnings.....but that was it!
I guess I said something that pissed him off and he said a few things with a raised voice and walked out.
I'm not mad..... I'm more disappointed. I'm disappointed that he didn't realize the non texts. I'm disappointed that he accepted my bratty attitude AND he somewhat yelled and walked out.
About 15 mins later he came back into our room and laid down on the bed and told me to come lay with him. I really didn't want to but I did it anyway. He said that he was sorry and that I was right. He also said he was sorry for walking out but he still doesn't know how to handle me when I'm bratty. He says he's not sure how to react or what to do when I'm being disrespectful and mouthy. So we go back to the old ways. :/
But, I get it. I get that this is still pretty new for us and we are both still learning. We are both still trying to figure out our roles.
I talked to him today on his break and he informs me that I didn't text him yesterday either. AND that I had a bratty attitude with him yesterday.
Oh crap! But....so what! So what if I didn't text him? And? What's going to happen? He's just NOW realizing it....the next day? Whatever!
He said that we will discuss it when we get home from work. I told him that he can't just come up with things after the fact. He needs to deal with stuff when it happens, not when he finally realizes or remembers. He told me to quit trying to talk him out of it, drop it. So I did!
11:30 rolls around and I sent him his text! I figured out how to set the damn alarm....WHEW!
When we get home from work I am totally expecting him to bring up the last couple of days. I'm kind of excited but also a little nervous. Excited to see how he is going to handle this....nervous to see how he is going to handle this!! LOL
But of course he doesn't. Nothing is said about the non text or my bratty attitude. Nothing!
I just read a blog today and she was wondering if "is there a HOH club out there where they trade secrets?" Well I can tell you my hubby isn't in that club! But if there is, where can I register him??? LOL
Sometimes I feel I overwhelm him and expect way to much. But how long can you say "this is all still new" before it's not new anymore?