We have spent a lot of time talking about things we like, things we don't like, things we want to try and things that we will never try. It has been very interesting and we both (I think) have learned a lot about each other.
I would tell him about blogs that I read and how the couples handle certain situations. I would tell him that so and so did this and she got a spanking for it.
"We are never going to do that. You are my wife, not my child!"
"Yeah, I'm not into that either!"
"Oh yea, I like it when you do that!!!"
So the other day we we're talking and he says
"Ya know, I've been thinking I want to try spanking, how do you feel about that?"
"What do you mean? You know I like it when you spank me!"
"No, I mean for punishment"
"Huh?" WTH???? Is he serious?
"Well? How do you feel about that?"
"Ummmm well, I don't know, how much say so do I have in this? I mean it's my ass....so I'm thinking no!"
HAHAHAHA "Well, I think we're going to try it"
Later that night we we're laying in bed watching TV and his back was itching. He asks me to scratch his back, so being the good submissive wife that I am, I did it. We went back to watching TV and he asked again.
I guess I wasn't itching it good enough
I told him that's what the back scratcher is for, it will scratch it better than I can. He just kinda gives me a look and then
He gets up and takes it off the hook and examines it. I mean really examines it. He hits it against his hand and has this......ummmm....well......I guess you would say a twinkle in his eye.
I just look at him and shake my head. Like that was gonna work
"Come here, bend over the bed"
He can't be serious, we haven't even discussed spanking. I thought we we're never going to do this.
"I said come here" why is it he gets an implement in his hand and all of a sudden he knows how to be the HOH???
Well, being the good little sub I am, I go to his side of the bed and reluctantly bend over the bed. I am so nervous and kind of excited but I am laughing like a silly school girl. I'm not sure why because I knew it was going to hurt.
OK we are definitely NOT doing that!
I'm jumping up and down , rubbing my ass and it stings like hell. But for some strange reason I am still laughing.
He is just looking at me, not really understanding.
"OW hun, that hurts" rubbing my ass and pouting
"So what do you think, I think we are going to try this"
"OK if that's what you want to do, but can I ask one thing?"
"Sure baby, anything"
"Can you do some research and make sure you know who to spank?"
"What do you mean, you break a rule, bend over and I smack your ass!"
"WHAT? No I'm serious. You can't just go spanking all willy nilly"
HAHAHAHA "OK baby, I will check it out....but we are doing this!"
So here we are! Looks like I'm going to be the best damn submissive this side of the Mississippi!!
Oh and if any of you have any advice or suggestions for me....please let me know! I'm probably going to need all the help I can get, he enjoyed that way to much! I have a feeling there are a lot more rules in my future.
Watch what you wish for.....cause you just might get it!